Lessons from Roger Federer

Roger Federer taught me a valuable lesson today.

Oops he did it again.

Yesterday few girlfriends of mine came over to support our tennis friend Roger Federer at his 2012 Wimbledon final against Andy Murray. I was a nervous wreck before the match started. I kind of knew what to expect and still painted for fresh air conditioning breeze to unfold this electrifying historic day. The cameras were rolling and sticking to Roger’s face recording this enormous event. 

Roger knew the value of winning this match and making a history.  This meant reaching his 17th Grand Slam, reclaiming his number 1 status of the world’s best tennis player as well as teeing square 7th Wimbledon win with my other friend Pete Sampras. I was suspecting that Pete was throwing some spells at Roger from preventing it to happen. (ha ha) After all who doesn’t want to remain a legend and be remembered as the best ever?

Roger did confirm my suspicion and for the 7th time he grabbed his Wimbledon trophy sealing his win with a sweet kiss on the pot of gold.


What made a difference this time?

Have you ever wondered, as have I, what makes such a dramatic difference in people’s lives and careers? It isn’t always money or talent or hard work. It isn’t that one person wants success and the other doesn’t. You will be shocked and lit up with interest if I told you that distance to getting anything you desire is just 2 millimeters. That’s right you have heard me correctly. This minuscule correction makes your tennis or golf swing more effective, trim haircut invisible, your facelift look more neutral, because your ideal beauty is matter of millimeters, your perfect 2mm veneer smile, your Ipod as thin that fits into your jean pocket, etc. You got the idea. I like to call it 2 millimeter trance

I shared this revelation with my girlfriends as they looked captivated by the validity of my statement, and asked the obvious question?.

-What do you mean 2 millimeters correction trance?

I paused to collect my thoughts and then said.  We are all in some trance.  People are fixated about their problems and their dreams all the time. They are searching too far for the magical formulas to solve or change them.  You need to meet yourself where you already are before you can take yourself to where you want to go. And this distance is only 2  millimeter (metaphorically speaking).

– So you need to step right up?-they all yelled enthusiastically.

– This isn’t at first as obvious as it may appear. The confusion is that wonderful state right before clarity. And Roger got plenty of both during  his game. – I continued without the exhale.

The difference also lies in how attuned each person is to the spiritual forces around them and how they can tap into that power to have a more successful life.

Today Roger discovered the ability to tap into the supreme source of ultimate power, meaning, and he let it all go.  The aura around him was so visible that I felt immediately he owned it within every inch of his body. This was the most magical moment for him by raising to the level of display of outrageous tennis. He entered into the field of magic, charisma hypnotically seducing us all over again with his majestic grace.

Roger made me tick

What does this guy know that you and I can benefit from? He is one of the most down to earth people, and turns into tennis monster on the court.

We normally would do anything for those who encourage our dreams, justify our failures, allay our fears, confirm our suspicion, and help us throw the rocks at our enemies.  I was relieved no one was throwing rocks during the match (nor were there any naked runs through the court). There was a great lesson to be learned right at the front of our eyes. Roger displayed incredible tennis chemistry and encouraged me to never stop dreaming. If this guy doesn’t make you feel like you can unlock the treasure chest of success, fulfillment then you may as well forget any sort of attempt at all.

The point of this confession is that the most magical things in life -on and off the court – are often the result of the correct application of testing and finding our 2 millimeters.

Looking forward to hear about your 2 millimeters revelations.

Your fashion Guru

Kasia Bosne


7 Men I’d Love to Have Coffee With

This is my list of inspiring men that I would jump at the chance to sit down and share a cup of coffee and a healthy conversation with. These guys truly are amazing!

1. Tony Robbins

Tony Robbins has made a name for himself as a self-help author. His book called Unlimited Power discusses health and energy, persuasive communication, relationship building, and overcoming fears. His enthusiasm and out of this world energy can unleash the power within everyone who attends his popular semminars throughout the world. I have red all his books and listened numerous times to his audio CDs while I was unleashing.  I have also participated this April in his Unleash The Power Within 4 day semminar in NY and have been “Robbins energy wired” since then. The memorable fire walk on hot stones 1200F hot made me understand that we can be fearless.

Mr. Robbins I would love to pick your brain over the capuccino.  And I know the best spot in NYC for that! can only imaginedn


2. Joe Vitale

Dr. Joe Vitale is a published author as well known as Mr.Fire specializing in using the Law of Attraction in business and life. His Atractor Factor book reached millions of people throughout the world and changed their lifes forever.  He has made it to the number one on New York Times bestseller list beating Harry Potter.  His hypnotic style made me glued to reading all his books and following his valuable hypnotic advice on any subject.  Joe knows it’s best.  Just check his blog http://www.mrfire.com/ start reading his books and I promise you will be hypnotized on the spot. I’d love to hear his advice on marketing though without being hypnotized.  Please Joe!

3. Jack Canfield

Best known as a co-author of the Chicken Soup for the Soul series, Jack Canfield is a well-known author. He made a history by selling over 500 mln of those Chicken books. And he did it again 47 more times as a number one New York Times best selling author. If anyone knows how to do it its surely Jack. In addition to this book series, he wrote The Success Principles, which I just started reading and he is a true master of how to create a sucess.  His simple and well explained techniques can motivate and inspire anyone who pursuits the road to riches. I think we could all use at least a few of those insights. Jack please call me when you are in town.  I can show you the best capuccino in town!


4. Kevin Trudeau

 Who is Kevin Trudeu? You may wonder. His controversional persona caught my attention as I came across one of his Youtube video. He had my attention at HELLO.

I like to call him “Mr. Everything they don’t want us to know about”

Mr. Trudeau is a published best selling author who has written several books on the topics of health and finance. He has been heavily critisized by the media for his natural remedies’s cures and became FTC most hated man.  His fight against Big Pharma and whistle blowing on government corruption put him in hot water with Law by both criminal and civil action. He claims that at age 15 he was a part of a very powerful elite group called Brotherhood.  Where few priviledge one has access to extra resources and powerful knowledge.  During his career he generated around 3billion dollars in sales in various businesses deals. Not bad for the self-made and self-educated boy who never went to collage. I admire his spice as he sticks true to himself and defends his convictions. Watch Kevin Trudeau show every day at http://www.ktradionetwork.com/ and  get the latest on health, money, product re calls, and everything they don’t want you to know about.  I would love to discuss the remedies he’s got for me and my finances over organic espresso. s


5. Jim Rohn

Unfortunately, the likelihood of this encounter is far less than any of the others even because this gentleman passed away a few years back.

He was one of the Tony Robbins favored mentor, and I clearly understand why.  His story is one of “rags to riches”.  A self-starter, he became an entrepreneur, author, and motivational speaker using his background as a starting ground.

His book, Five Major Pieces to the Life Puzzle, discusses the keys to success. You can watch Jim Rohn Best Life Ever here . and start transforming your life NOW.

He has incredible sense of humor and makes it fun and easy for everyone to comprehend his mastery. Don’t wish it were easier, wish you were better. The more you know the less you need to say. They were some of his mantras I practice every day. He makes it so easy beacuse according to him When you know what you want, and want it bad enough, you will find a way to get it.  Perhaps I will find a way to have coffee one day with his successor.


6. Harv Eker

Don’t you want to learn how to become a millioner only from the best?

Author of Secrets of the Millionaire Mind, Harv Eker would have awesome advice on how to become financially successful and free. He claims that if you give him 5 minutes he can predict your financial future.

Harv I will give you 2 minutes to predict mine? s



7. Roger Federer

I could definitely stand up to have coffee with this internationally-known tennis champion. As a big tennis fan I am cherring for him at the Wimbledon where he is challening claiming his 18th Grand Slam title. This men is best known for his brilliance, elagnce wondrous shots that few players in history have been able to execute. I hope he will be THE ONE kissing that much wanted Trophy on Sunday. And I could definetely use his expertise to improve my forehand over the cafe au lait!s


What about you?! If you could sit down and talk for awhile with anyone in the world from any time, who would you choose?

Looking forward to hearing from you!

Your fashion guru,